I don't know. [It's hard- she wants to do this the way Steven did it, even though she's called that tactic naive and ridiculous before. But it worked for her, and when she put the same offer to Yellow Diamond, it didn't]Steven never had one. He wanted to help Jasper even when all she wanted to do was kill him, and... I wasn't any better.

Maybe it's just seeing what they do when they're given an opportunity to understand.